Wednesday, November 18, 2009

Marriage..and..sisterhood..

What can I possibly write? When I think of writing anything, either words fail me or I don't have time.

And now that I know nobody reads what I write or at least try to write makes me much happier and comfortable. There are many things that I would like say to few people like phoo, joo, etc.


 

Dear phoo,

Now that you are getting married, while you have your bidaai keep your apprehensions in your old place and move into your new place with an open heart attitude. Complaining in new surrounding would come easy and expressing might be difficult. So in your heart try to complain less and give as much love and respect you can. You have won 1 heart already, win more and life will be so much more easy. Try to cater to everyone's needs. Listen more and speak less, even if anyone tries to find faults to justify their choice, do not give anyone a chance to find faults at you. Make your hubby(BFT) proud of his love.

 
 

Yours lovingly,

BO(blog owner)

 
 

Dear joo,

My namaste to you and god(prabhu) and love to KANK(kabhi alvida na kehna). Like I talked to you on phone the other day. Phoo is in love and she is happy(most important!!). So while you suggest her something take care of things. Hopefully she will keep in touch with us after getting married because it seems to me that she will be totally into her hubby and forget the world but what gives me hope is that BFT(breath of fresh tobacco) seems to care of that part and hopefully he'll remind her to keep in touch with us *sigh*. Waiting for all of you to come and join us. And wishing to know god better. I don't understand some strange kind of attachment makes me want to know him better(maybe after my bonding/rapport with BFT). As you married early and I was very young I couldn't get into the mould then, now I understand things much better. The rapport with god that I've failed to make then, I look forward to make it now, hopefully.

 
 

Yours lovingly,

BO